Podcast Episode: Promoting Reconciliation Through Dialogue And Mutual Love (Homily For The 23rd Sunday Of Ordinary Time, Year A)

Pip: What do you get when you take the Twenty-Third Sunday of Ordinary Time, a Spiritan missionary in Puerto Rico, and the perennial human talent for skipping straight to “treat him like a tax collector”? An episode, apparently.

Mara: That’s exactly the territory canicecnjoku covers this week — responsibility toward one another, the mechanics of reconciliation, and why mutual love is the method, not just the sentiment. Let’s start with the Sunday homily reflections.

Pip: The Twenty-Third Sunday of Ordinary Time lands on a question that feels both ancient and Monday-morning urgent: when someone in your community goes wrong, what exactly are you obligated to do about it — and how?

Mara: The English homily sets the stakes directly from Paul’s second reading: “Avoid getting into debt, except the debt of mutual love.” The word “mutual” is doing real work there — this isn’t sentiment, it’s a two-directional obligation.

Pip: So the upshot is that love, in this framing, isn’t passive goodwill. It counsels, corrects, accepts correction, and shares the weight of responsibility. Silence isn’t neutral — it has consequences for the one who stays quiet.

Mara: Ezekiel makes that explicit. God tells the watchman: “I will hold you responsible.” The homily draws that line clearly — indifference to moral or spiritual decay in your community could, as the text puts it, be detrimental in the future.

Pip: Which is a remarkably gentle way of saying that looking the other way is its own kind of choice, with its own kind of cost.

Mara: And then the Gospel gives the practical architecture. Christ offers a three-step principle: dialogue one-on-one first, then seek a mediator, then bring in the wider community. The homily notes that dialogue sits at the center — the capacity to see things from another’s perspective, to empathize.

Pip: The Spanish homily — “Homilia del Vigésimo Tercero Domingo del Tiempo Ordinario” — covers the same scriptural ground for a Spanish-speaking audience, and it sharpens one image worth noting: dialogue, it says, promotes mutual respect, saves energy and time, and ultimately restores relationships. When both sides agree, God seals it.

Mara: Both versions close on the same diagnosis: we skip the steps. We go straight to treating the other person as a tax collector — the nuclear option — before exhausting the quieter, harder work of actually talking.

Pip: Turns out the three-step process isn’t complicated. It’s just inconvenient.

Mara: The homily would probably say that’s exactly why it needs spelling out, Sunday after Sunday.

Pip: Responsibility, dialogue, love as action rather than feeling — that’s the thread running through both texts, and it’s worth sitting with.


Mara: The through-line this week is accountability — to each other, through honest conversation, before anything escalates.

Pip: Dialogue first. Court of law a distant last resort. Same advice next Sunday, probably, because we keep needing it.

Homilia del Vigésimo Tercero Domingo del Tiempo Ordinario, Ano A

Promoviendo Reconciliación a través de Diálogo Y Amor Mutuo

Lecturas: 1raEz 33, 7-9; Sal: 94, 1-2.6-9; 2daRom 13, 8-10; Ev: Mt 18, 15-20

Esta breve reflexión fue escrita por el Padre Canice Chukwuemeka Njoku, C.S.Sp., DMin., un sacerdote católico y miembro de la Congregación del Espíritu Santo (Espirítanos). Es un misionero en Puerto Rico. Es director del Santuario del Espíritu Santo, Dorado, y el Superior Mayor de la Congregación del Espíritu Santo (Espirítanos), Circunscripción de Puerto Rico y República Dominicana. El padre Canice es miembro de la Academia de Homilética (The Academy of Homiletics). Para más detalles y comentarios , se puede contactarlo al: canice_c_njoku@yahoo.com, canicechukwuemeka@gmail.com.

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Hoy, el vigésimo tercer domingo del tiempo ordinario, la Iglesia nos recuerda nuestra responsabilidad hacia a los demás, y a nuestra sociedad. Lo más importante, se nos recuerda que el diálogo y el amor mutuo son el mejor método para promover la reconciliación.

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En la primera lectura, Dios nos recuerda a través del profeta Ezequiel, que tenemos una responsabilidad hacia unos con otros. Esto es especialmente, con respecto a aconsejar y advertir a otros de las consecuencias de sus acciones para salvarlas. Se necesita amor para advertir o aconsejar a alguien. Por lo tanto, debamos hacer esto con amor.

Decir que tenemos una responsabilidad hacia a los demás, es también decir que viene con su propia consecuencia para nosotros. Por lo tanto, el Señor dice: “yo te haré responsable, te pediré a ti cuenta de su vida.” Así que, es nuestro deber hablar, aconsejar, e incluso advertir a nuestros hermanos, amigos y parientes cuando están perdiendo su camino. Ser indiferente a la decadencia (moral, cultural y espiritual) en nuestra familia, sociedad o comunidad podría ser en nuestro propio detrimento en el futuro. Entonces, la responsabilidad recae en nosotros para ser el guardián de nuestro hermano. Esto es lo que Dios quiere decir.

Por desgracia, hoy, mientras que las cosas van mal, algunos de nosotros prefieren guardar en silencio, unirse a la mayoría, o pretender que todo está bien. Debemos hacerse oír. Esto es porque, la indiferencia o el silencio que mostramos hoy nos puede atormentar mañana. Sin embargo, debemos ser conscientes de que Dios dice: “No quiero la muerte del malvado… quiero que se abandone su mala conducta y que viva” (Ez 18, 23). Así que, cualquier acción que debemos tomar, debe ser para corregir, y traer de vuelta el malvado.

En la segunda lectura, Pablo golpea el clavo en la cabeza: “Evitan meterse en deuda, excepto la deuda del amor mutuo.” Debemos tomar nota del adjetivo, “mutuo” con lo que Pablo calificó el amor. La calidad de este amor no es sólo un mero sentimiento egoísta o deseo de satisfacerse. Más bien, es lo que piensa y se preocupa por el bien del otro.

Básicamente, puede ser conocido a través de las acciones que nos incita. Esto simplemente significa, que debe ser un amor relacional que se preocupa, el amor que está listo para dar, y el amor que razona. Es amor mutuo porque, toma y comparte la responsabilidad. Aconseja y acepta buenos consejos. Corrige, y acepta correcciones. Es generoso, y ayuda al otro ver claramente. Es amor en su mejor en 1 Co 13. Es simplemente, responsivo y responsable.

En el Evangelio, Jesús nos da los principios de la reconciliación. Esto significa que los conflictos son inevitables, deben venir. Son inevitables en las relaciones, en las familias y en las comunidades. Sin embargo, la pregunta es ¿cómo resolverlas amistosamente? Es importante notar que en el centro del principio de Jesús está el diálogo. La capacidad para aconsejar y hablar sobre temas, para ver las cosas desde la perspectiva de otros o, la capacidad de empatía con los demás.

Por lo tanto, Cristo nos da un principio tridimensional de la reconciliación. Primero, debemos sentarnos y dialogar uno con el otro, y cara a cara. Entonces, busca la mediación de un buen amigo, y finalmente, busca la mediación de nuestra comunidad o familia. Como cristianos, ¿cómo resolvemos nuestros problemas? ¿Tomar una libra de carne del otro, o ir directamente a la corte? Debemos tomar nota de los tres pasos básicos que Cristo nos da hoy.

Por desgracia, descuidamos todos estos pasos básicos y vamos directamente a: “Tratarlo como a un recaudador de impuestos o un pagano.” Antes de esto, (si es necesario), debemos hacer todos los esfuerzos para reconciliarnos con a los demás a través del diálogo. El diálogo promueve el respeto mutuo por el otro, nos ahorra mucha energía y tiempo. Finalmente, promueve el amor mutuo y restablece las relaciones. Cuando dialogamos y estamos de acuerdo, Dios lo sella con un gran Amén.

¡La paz sea con ustedes!

¡Maranatha!

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Homily For The 23rd Sunday Of Ordinary Time, Year A

Promoting Reconciliation Through Dialogue And Mutual Love

Readings: 1st: Ez 33, 7-9; Ps 94, 1-2.6-9; 2nd: Rom 13, 8-10; Gos: Mt 18, 15-20

This brief reflection was written by Fr. Njoku Canice Chukwuemeka, C.S.Sp., DMin, a Catholic Priest and a member of the Congregation of the Holy Spirit (Spiritans). He is a missionary in Puerto Rico. He is Director of Santuario del Espiritu Santo, Dorado, and the Major Superior of the Congregation of the Holy Spirit (Spiritans), Circumscription of Puerto Rico and the Dominican Republic. Fr. Canice is a member of the Academy of Homiletics. For more details and comments, contact him atcanice_c_njoku@yahoo.com, canicechukwuemeka@gmail.com.

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Today, the twenty-third Sunday of ordinary time, the holy mother church reminds us of our responsibility towards one another and our society. Most importantly, she reminds us that dialogue and mutual love is the best method to promote reconciliation.

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In the first reading, God reminds us, through Prophet Ezekiel, that we are responsible for one another. This is especially true regarding counseling and warning others of the consequences of their actions in order to save them. It takes love to warn, counsel or advice someone. So, we are to do this with love.

To say that we have a responsibility towards others is also to say that it has a consequence for us too. Therefore, the Lord says: “I will hold you responsible.” We must speak out, counsel, and even warn our brothers and sisters, children, friends, and relatives when they miss their path. Being indifferent to the decay (especially moral, cultural, and spiritual) in our family, society, or community could be detrimental in the future. So, the onus lies on us to be our brother’s keeper. This is what God is saying.

Unfortunately, today while things go wrong, some of us prefer to keep quiet, join the majority, or pretend nothing is wrong. We must make ourselves heard. This is because the indifference or silence we display today might haunt us tomorrow. However, we must be mindful that God says: “I do not delight in the death of a sinner…let him repent and live” (Ezek 18, 23). So, whatever action we take must be to correct, rebuild, and bring back the one on the wrong path.

In the second reading, Paul hits the nail right on the head: “Avoid getting into debt, except the debt of mutual love.” We must take note of the adjective “mutual” with which Paul qualified love. The quality of this love is not just a mere selfish feeling or desire to satisfy oneself. Instead, it is that which thinks and cares about the good and welfare of the other.

It can ultimately be known through the actions it prompts in us. This means it must be a relational love that cares, love that is ready to give, and love that reasons. It is mutual love because it takes and shares responsibility. It counsels, accepts good counsel, corrects, and accepts corrections. It is generous and helps the other see clearly. It is love at its best in 1 Cor 13. It is simple, responsive, and responsible.

In the gospel, Jesus gives us the principles of reconciliation. This means that conflicts are inevitable. They must come and are inevitable in relationships, families, and communities. However, the question is how do we resolve them amicably? It is important to note that dialogue is at the center of Jesus’ principle. Ability to counsel and talk over issues, to see things from the perspective of others, or to empathize with others.

Hence, Christ gives us a three-dimensional principle of reconciliation. First, we must sit down and dialogue one on one and face-to-face. Then, seek the mediation of a good friend, and finally, seek the mediation of our community or family. As Christians, how do we resolve our problems today? Take a pound of flesh from the other, or go straight to the court of law? We must note the three basic steps that Christ gives us today.

Unfortunately, today, we neglect all these basic steps and go straight to: “treat him like a tax collector.” Before this, if necessary, we must make all efforts to reconcile with others through dialogue. Dialogue fosters mutual respect for the other; it saves us a lot of energy, time, and the cost of lawsuits. Finally, it fosters mutual love and restores relationships. When we dialogue and agree, God, seals it with a great amen.

Peace be with you all!

Maranatha!

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